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writes:I've been goin out my bf for 2yrs, when we first got together we had a healthy but not very adventerous sex life.I also knew like every other guy that he looks at porn which didnt really bother me... until now cause ive been gettin less action than i used to an he seems to be lookin up porn every chance he gets when im either gone out or gone to bed... this bothers me cause it seems to me that hed rather play with himself while lookin at porn than t be with me!! advice ladies an men?
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (4 February 2008):
 Just in case you are interested in some male advice ( don't know why you wouldnt be ).
Perhaps part of the problem is that you never had a great sex life to begin with.
With all relationships sex is full on groping hard core wham bam for the first 6 months to a year, if you guys didnt have this to start with then your sexual compatibility is obviously not there.
Is he a good lover? and you just don't connect or is he pretty lousy? This could be the key as a boring sex life is naturally going to lead to one of the partners looking for variety. Perhaps you guys need to be more adventurous in the bedroom, you might just find that he starts to come to bed earlier again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2008): every guy looks at porn?srry back to the matter at hand this is a big problem you should mean more to him then porn you need to confront him on this issue he may even be addicted to the stuff try to help him through it but when it comes down to it he is going to have to make a decision you or his habit if he chooses his habit then he obviously wasnt good enough for you
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