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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years (we're both 16 now) and after a party last weekend things got really hot.... he started playing with me and I played with him, it's not rare but then we started penetration and we're both virgins and we've both talked it over and agreed that we would lose our virginity but it happend so quickly and it really hurt is this common? and if so how do I make it not hurt? We tried two positions... one where I was on top and the other I was on his bed and he went in, both hurt like crazy! Does this always happen the first time? (We did use protection!)
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reader, jinxx +, writes (11 November 2008):
 Yes, it's normal!
It hurt like crazy my first time, and the few times afterwards. You need time to get used to it, but once you are, it's quite fun =)
Just keep plugging away, and the pain will be gone soon enough.
Kudos on the protection. Better safe than sorry!
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male
reader, wickyricky  +, writes (11 November 2008):
it takes time for your body to ajust for the first time it does hurt the first time but saying that all women are diffrent the next time your having sex just take it slow and see what hapens dont make your self go on if its really sore and if your worried go to your doctor..or even ask ur mum im sure you dont want to ask your mum but she will respect you she will always love you dont worrie bout asking her
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso is there anyway to make it easier on the pain? positions? or does pratice make perfect thanks for the quick reply :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): I'm a male but I think this is normal, and I see that you appear to be underage but the theory is keep trying it will get better. I'm sure your body needs to adjust to him and it will with time.
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