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*elirous1
writes:Ive been talking to this for 6months and we been having sex. But we are not together and he says he doesnt want to rush into relationship. And that way fine when first started talking but now im ready for relationship. I wanna say that to him but i don't want to scare him off. I think he knows anyway thats why he tells me that. My question what should i do? im thinking about just letting it ago but im really feeling him. Reply to this Question
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reader, Delirous1 +, writes (4 December 2009):
Delirous1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAww thanks that really put things. in propective I think I am going to stop this because I don't think I really like him that much but I do like and always been hard for me to let people go I think thats my biggest issue. I think about what it could've been but it probably never will change. Thanks advice it helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): Do what YOU want. don't be affraid of loosing him, as u don't really have him.
Just sex was good for u for awhile, now it's not, either tell him, or just leave. Men need to be told simple and straightforward. If he is vague w/his answers after that which they do often just to get their way, leave and don't look back, i think he's a waiste of time anyway.
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reader, bitch +, writes (4 December 2009):
Never again have sex with any guy until you have established the fact that you really would like a relationship with them first. It is too hard for women to seperate sex and love, they end up really liking somebody after having sex with them over a period of time. It is just that way for women. So end this sexcapade now or tell him you no longer want to have sex and you reason is that you like him too much to not want any commitment at all. I want to tell every young girl out there not to just causally have sex with guys, it is not a good idea and can be hurtful in the long run for the girl.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 December 2009):
He didn't want to rush into a relationship, but was happy to rush into sex? He's using you young lady. I would tell him you want to take it further. If he does anything other than says yes, then he's using you and you need to move on before you get really hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): Sounds to me like he's using you. He gets his sex without having to be your boyfriend and all that goes with it, and then he can go off and do whatever he wants. Do you really want to keep letting him treat you like that?
If you ask him to make things official, and you DO scare him off, then you know you are better off without him. Then you can go be with someone who actually cares about you.
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