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writes:We used to have sex 3 or 4 times a day but within the past year things have gotten so stressful and there's been alot of fights between us. Now we have sex maybe once a week. How can I get us back to where we were?? Also when we do have sex I feel like its just the act. I don't feel as much passion and love as I used to.. Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut does anybody have any ways to tell a guy you want it the way it was? What about anything I can do to get him to want to more? Thanks to those of u who gave feedback!!!
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (7 February 2010):
 What you present here as a complaint, is not complaint but a normal pattern in sex life of any couple on earth.
But, what make to answer your question is this..."How can I get us back to where we were?? Also when we do have sex I feel like its just the act. I don't feel as much passion and love as I used to.. Help"
You want passion and love, which once you have experienced in the beginning of sex life, is it?
Then you should know the 'cause', that make love and passion alive for all living life. It is possible, but only at the cost of your knowing and learning.
You should learn about 'SPIRITUAL ASPECT OF SEXUAL ACTIVITY.
you should learn about eroticism, or tantra which has that aspect. read my article, and come out with question when you feel during your learning.
I appreciate your DESIRE. You have talent to experience true desire...Best luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2010): hey there,
in the beginning of the relationship sex is always more frequent but what i didnt understand was that when in a long term relationship you get a honey moon period where everything feels really good all the time buit truth is as you get more used to ewach others habits and around the house and in the bedroom. things may have become very routine like doing the same things during sex which maybe making it less exciting and less enjoyable. try different things in the bedroom adn try and variate your day when spending time together like doing something one on one. and also remember space too. if your living with ur partner then things will get stressfull if you are around each toher all the time.
good luck xx
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reader, Rosabellangel  +, writes (7 February 2010):
I know how you feel. My guy and I have been together just over a year. One thing is that you may be spending too much time together. Get out separately and do things shopping, coffee, the gym... If you spend time apart you'll miss each-other which will eliminate arguing and make you more apt to have a better sex life.
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