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writes:Hello all! I am really looking for some male help on this one. My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are pretty open to trying new things but lately things have been a little boring. We have done the role play and used the products, and all the other fun stuff. Guys, I am hoping you can offer me some advice on things I can do to turn the heat up a little. What does it for you? Any particular positions?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): you really want to spice up your sex life. If you are into anal play at all. Start playing with his ass area. Start slow at first. Outside with your finger and after awhile put your finger into his ass. (use lube) After awhile try two fingers, than up to small toys. If he can get pass this, put that strapon on and go too town. He will enjoy it. Many nerve endings in this area. My wife and I have a ball.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2009): If you want to surprise him, wear an apron to greet him at the front door when he comes home from a hard day at work. Underneath the apron you should wear stockings, suspenders and skimpy frilly knickers with high heeled stilettoes on your feet. A bra is completely optional.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for all of your responses. I did want to make one thing clear, that maybe I did not earlier. We very much connect on an emotional level with and without sex, and are so in love. Our relationship is actually pretty perfect. So please do not think this is more of a relationship quesion. I said "things had gotten boring" and maybe I should not have worded it that way. It is by no means boring. I am simply looking for ways to satisfy my man! Things I can do to surprise and please him. Thanks again for the responses.
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reader, freebird  +, writes (2 June 2009):
 Hey,
I am this big fan of Osho. I am sure he is old fashioned in the west. But why not read 'from sex to super consciousness'? Its a great book and offers a fresh perspective on sex and love. It will totally change your views on sex. You might still want to do it but for slightly different reasons!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2009): http://www.sexinfo101.com
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reader, rocknroll +, writes (2 June 2009):
Hate to say it, but it may not have anything to do with the sex department. What about other aspects of your life? Goals, dreams?Okay, if you want new ideas, how about S and M? Swings that are attached to the ceiling? Maybe two swings? Little acrobatics maybe?How about role playing? King of the jungle, or rough play like our other animal friends, tigers, dogs? Not being synical, though it may sound like it, but maybe I am old school: there is only so much you can do wih sex!Take care, hope you at least got a laugh from my post.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009): For me, it's not about positions or trying to act like a circus acrobat between the sheets. It's more to do with having a deep love for each other and this is often expressed just by cuddling each other to sleep without actually having sex. It's that feeling of togetherness that is so comforting.
When we do have sex it is truly amazing, just like you, but it makes it even more so when we concentrate on quality rather than quantity. 'Quantity sex', if I can call it that, does tend to get boring after a while because there's not so much meaning put into it and it tends to become a routine activity. Spontaneous sex after a short period of abstention is a whole lot better.
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