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writes: Advice needed as I am feeling pretty down.I got involved with a guy about 2 months back who didn't think was that nice but after a few dates I got to really like. We met each others friends and he insisted on meeting my parents. Everyone thought he was lovely. We are in our late 20's. WE slept together and things are good physically apart from I would like him to be a bit rougher than he is, he can be a bit too "nice" in the bedroom and I like a man after we have slept together a few times to be a bit more forceful, but it was still very good as there is/was lots of chemistry between us.It was all going well we did lots together went out to dinner, bars etc and we do get on well, always have loads to talk about. There are few things I said which I think have made him distance himself in the last few weeks - a)I asked him to dinner at my parents he thought it was too soon, even though he had already met them! B) - asked him about our relationship - he said he didn't want to talk about it at that pointc) - asked him to go out with another couple - he said he wanted to know me better first!B4 all the above he more less spoke like we were together and told me he really liked me and that I was amazing. Now he hasn't called me since we last saw each other couple of weeks back - he has text me quite regularly but thats it! He hasn't asked me out again. I sent him a kinky picture of me to liven things up which he did really like, but then when I asked if he was going to do anything about it he has not replied, I think this could be that he doesn;t know how to send kinky texts or he is just no longer interested - what shall I do, play hard to get or actually pick up the phone and ask him what's up??Thank you in advance.So confused! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2006): Forget him and get on with your life, he sounds as he has something he is hiding from you i.e. a wife/girlfriend/partner. Don't waste any more time on this idiot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2006): Quite frankly dear, if I were in your shoes...I would just pull back-waaay back and find someone who is bit less complicated. It's been 2 weeks-and he's not making a move to ask you out again. Could it be that he has other interests, as well? He is politely sending you a few text messages. That's good and fine but are they only, in response to your texts? You have to think about his actions here, hun. I have always said, when a guy really likes a gal, he will find the most creative ways to 'be with her', all of the time. He would be afraid of losing her so a guy fully understands the importance of continual, assertive contact and dating in those first few crucial months. He's not doing this. You could call him but it's likely you won't get an honest, open answer. I think he's just playing with you a bit...let this go.
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