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Seeing my ex at work every day is a strain! Any way out of this situation that doesn't involve quitting my job?

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Question - (13 February 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 February 2006)
A male United States, anonymous writes:

I was seeing this girl that I work with on and off for about 6 months. We had a lot of ups and downs because she was reluctant to get involved in a serious relationship. After a while we started seeing each other every day and got really close, this lasted for about 2 weeks. Then out of nowhere she said I was suffocating her and broke it off.

I see her at work every day so it was a difficult time for me. A few weeks passed and she started texting me, saying that she really missed me and was sorry for the way she treated me. But within days she started seeing some other guy.

My problem is that I have to work with her every day and she is always calling and texting him from work. I am hurting enough over the situation without having to see her every day and hear her talking on the phone to this guy right in front of me.

Is there any way I can feel better about this without just quitting my job and getting away from her?

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A female reader, smeedle United Kingdom +, writes (13 February 2006):

smeedle agony auntWake up to the fact that it is over and that she has moved on, you sound like a fantastic bloke she sounds like a bitch, if you carnt sit away from her then you will just have to grow a thick skin, she is just showing off because she knows it bothers you.

Get yourself a girlfriend and then you too can be texting etc, she is just not worthy of your time and consideration.

Do not quit your job, why should you and lets face it this will stop soon as it seems she is insecure in relationships so it will not be long before she gets bored of the new bloke, brazen it out, be strong, dont let her get you down, she just aint worth it.

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