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writes:help.Im a teen, age 14, and i just started puberty, and ive been watching porn. at first it was moderate. then i stared doing it everyight.then i saw a gay porn video and stupid stuff like that. i feel so ashamed i know that im not gay. i cant imagine my self in a relationship with a guy. i dont know why but seeing a guy naked just turns me on. I feel so ashamed and its only when i get "excited: that i want to see that kind of stuff. I have dated and kissed many girls and at school i don't think about dating men i think abut dating women.Someone please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2011): hun trust me this does not mean you're gay. but it could mean you're bi. I'm just like you. I'm a 14 year old girl and find myself attracted to other girls, but i couldn't really see myself dating them. Maybe just messing around with them. I get really turned on when I see a naked girl or lesbian porn but am also very attracted to guys. I mean, I've had sex with my current bf and love it so I don't think I'm gay. Just try not to worry so much about what you are. Gay, bi, straight. We're still trying to figure ourselves out. Never be ashamed of anything you do sexually. Whether it be looking at other men or anything that someone else may think is "weird" or "gross". Something I've learned from having sexual "relations" is that there is no right or wrong. It's just whatever makes you feel good. It's something that's private so you never have to worry about what other people think cuz you never have to tell them.
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reader, Newbie31 +, writes (12 February 2011):
 I feel that being so young and just starting out with this stuff, you don't have much experience with what the other sex looks like. Personally, yes I know what a penis looks like, but I just can't picture one in my head and when I do I get turned off. Im 100percent straight. This may be that you like to picture a naked man because that's what you want to be/ look like. Get what i'm saying? You can relate to your parts more easily than a womans and seeing a" big" man gets you turned on because subconsciously you want to be that guy. Not the guy in particular, but a sexy guy like that.and I agree with the previous answer, that you may not know your sexuality, but don't worry about it too much. Just take things as they come. If you worry about being gay or straight, you may just convince yourself that you are what you aren't. You have plenty of time to figure this all out. I hope this helped.
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reader, auntieloulou  +, writes (11 February 2011):
 First of all, do not worry. This is a reality for a lot of people. Your still so very young, you have so much time to explore your sexuality. Do you still feel turned on when you see women naked? If yes, then you have nothing to worry about. This may be a phase for you, or maybe you are just aroused at the sight of a man. Maybe as you get older and start sating girls, this phase will die out, or maybe as you begin dating girls you may realise you are more attracted to men. It's not a big deal at all, we all go through fads and phases. Don't worry about it, different people are turned on by different things. some women are turned on by other women but are straight, some men are turned on by other men but are straight. everything will fall into place in time. so for now don't worry and just enjoy being young!
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