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Second thoughts about using this as an opener?

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Question - (15 April 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 April 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Ages ago, I signed up to the chat and dating site, faceparty. While I was on there, I got chatting to a girl, who was 18 at the time but now she's 21. I got her Facebook friend request accepted.

We didn't chat for ages, and we haven't even met each other.

As FB informs you of Friend's birthdays, I noticed it was hers yesterday, so I sent her a message saying 'I know you don't know me, but happy birthday, and would you like to come to the beer festival next weekend? (Easter)

To my utter surprise, she replied with: Oh thank you -:) (positive smiley). When is it? (the beer festival)

I replied, but I am not sure what to do now. Initially, I thought inviting her to the beer festival would be a good 'opener', but now I'm not so sure.

(She is single!)

What do you think?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2011):

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If she hasn't replied by Thursday, shall I give her my number and ask her to text me if she wants to come?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2011):

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Please can you pm me your answer, Extra-Ordinary, I didn't get it!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2011):

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A little more I know about her:

She has just turned 21, and I am 31 (don't know whether she'll want an older man)

She has 1 son, who's 1 year old.

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