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writes:When i was 14 i was really close with this guy, we were so close for about 1 and a half years, then he asked me out. He would have been my first ever boyfriend but because of that i freaked out and said no. After that for a while it was awkward beween us but after a month we began talking again. It was never the same as how wed been before and little things about him started to bother me. But now, i started to like him, i think hes beautiful but my problem is, will he ever ask me out again.? I want to be with him, i know im only 15 and it wont last forever, but right now, the idea of him and me seems amazing, please help. Do you think i stand a chance with him and if i do... Do i deserve him? Thankyou Reply to this Question
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (1 July 2011):
of course you still deserve him you just werent ready for a boyfriend then i would tell him how you,ve been feeling and see what he thinks of you,s giving it a go good luck
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (1 July 2011):
 Yes of course you still deserve him. You haven't done anything wrong and I hope he is still willing to get together with you. You were just weren't ready when he asked and that is not your fault. It probably hurt him but it's not like you did it intentionally and I'm sure he knows it. Tell him that you would like to give the relationship a chance if he still wants to. Let him know that you just weren't ready and you are sorry for how it made him feel. Chances are he still likes you so he will be happy that this chance came about. If he isn't then he obviously didn't like you that much in the beginning.
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reader, Rosalieblackheart +, writes (30 June 2011):
 It is always better to say no than yes if you are not sure about a relationship. I think that it is not true that it could not work out because your 15, I know a couple who met at the age of 5 and now is married and they are 90 something. However you are right, that is very uncommon, yet you can always ask him out. I know it is pressured to wait for the boy to ask however it is fine for a girl to ask. So go out there and ask him, just remember to be yourself good luck and remember the key to a good relationship is communication, tell him how much you regret saying no! Xxx rosalieblackheart
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