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How do I pursuade my b/f to break the boundaries that we set up?

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Question - (30 June 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 July 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *unkin1996 writes:

Im 15 and me and my boyfriend were makingout. I dont know why i did this but i pressured him into touching my breast we both thonk we took it to far but i want it more now. How do i perrsude him to break the boundries and also why did i have the urge to pressure him into doing it?

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A female reader, loveshimithink United States +, writes (3 July 2011):

loveshimithink agony aunti think you should honestly wait. TRUST me having sex that young is horrible it causes sooo many problems... once you do everyone will look at you like you did something wrong even if they have had sex.. it just the world of teens to judge everyone and everything..

and you might have an unwanted prego!! you just need to wait a longg time!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2011):

It's called hormones. You may feel ready but you're not. Stick to just kissing until you're older.

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A female reader, maverick494 United States +, writes (30 June 2011):

You're smack dab in the middle of puberty. These urges are caused by hormonal changes and fluctuations in you. You're body is pretty much trying to find a balance between the kid you once was and the woman you're going to be. Sexual urges are part of that.

However, try not to give into these urges and keep your boundaries. You are simply too young to have sex and trust me, going from making out to touching breasts, etc. will eventually lead to sex if you don't keep yourselves in check.

So please wait a while before you start messing around. At 15 I thought I was very mature but trust me, when you're my age (23) you won't think the same of yourself back then.

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