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writes:My boyfrined really wants a blow job. He told me he's willing to wait for me, but I feel like I need to do it. Not because he's pressuring me, but because I'm curious and want him knowing he can come to me for pleasure and a relationship. I'm scared though..please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2011): First you need to make sure he isn't pressuring you. I was in this exact position a month ago. Never given one before, and I wanted to for my boyfriend. We started slowly, I started rubbing his penis outside of his jeans and then he pulled them down and I worked with my hand for starters.You need to find the best position whether its him sitting on the edge of the bed and you in between his legs, or him standing up and you kneeling down. However I find it best when he is lying on his side on the bed and then I can lie down and get comfortable too.When you're in the right postitions, you can just look at it first and get used to it, run your tounge up his penis first and then kiss it, gently. You can start off slowly, just act as if it's a lolly pop and strat sucking slowly. Since it's your first time you don't need to worry about going really deep, he will understand. Do it at your own pase, there is no rush. Stop as soon as you feel uncomfortable, he should appreciate you need to practice. It's really not as bad as people make it out to be.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (19 July 2011):
 Sounds like he is pressuring you, yepp. In an ideal relationship you don't ask for sex, or pleasure, you are given these things without asking. If he asks he sounds needy, and that he only cares for himself.
Are you sure he is a good boyfriend for you?
As for the blowjob, nothing to be scared of. You can stop at any time you want, and only go as far as you want. Start with the easy steps of unzipping his pants and taking a look at his penis and get comfortable with just looking at it and touching it. The proceed from there. Make sure you stop when/if you feel uncomfortable!
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (19 July 2011):
 You stated, "My boyfrined really wants a blow job." That sounds like he is pressuring you, and that is no condition in which a young woman should be doing anything! Question: Is he offering oral pleasure for you? First?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2011): Well I agree that you shouldnt do something if you arent comfortable with it. But you said you werent. Now are you actually scared or do you mean more like nervous? If you are nervous thats very normal. Just have fun with it and try to relax. Just get comfortable with it. I am all for using protection but as a personal opinion flavored condoms dont taste better. I preffer tasting skin and salty/ bitter cum to sweetened rubber lol.
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