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Scared he will say NO!

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Question - (27 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 January 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *GplusMC writes:

I liked this guy we where best friends and I asked him out. To make a long story short he said no I was heart broken. Well now I like this new guy we will call him "DAN", Dan is very cute, funny and smart. I really want to ask him out but.... Im afraid he will say no I have already been through this before with the last guy and I dont want the school to think Im desparet I just like Dan. So my question is should I ask Dan out? By the way me and Dan have goon out before we went out 3 times but I started to like someone new so I dumped Dan. But I want him back and are last date was over a year ago.

I dont know what to do her I like Dan but i dont want to get hurt. Plus its all most Valentiens day not that thats why I want Dan! Its just it would be nice to spend Vday with someone other then my dogs and the Gilmore Girl movies. So help me please Im an emotional reck!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (28 January 2010):

The question is do you really want Dad. And think carefully. You've already dumped him then gone back to him, then stopped it again. You need to be sure you really want him. If you do, you also need to be aware that he might say no because of what has happened before. If you can face that and take the chance, then just ask him out again and see what happens. Better to know where you stand, then not know and be left confused.

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A female reader, Mizz_BrownEyez United States +, writes (28 January 2010):

Mizz_BrownEyez agony auntLOL I think every female is afraid of rejection, but damn look at these poor guys they get rejected everyday and still approach other women. I say go for it, your not desperate, that would be you begging him to go out with you, but just asking is fine. Women can do the asking too dont be afraid mamaz what doesnt kill you only makes you stronger.

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