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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): Say to him how much you want this relationship to last, talk about how much you love him, or go out for a romantic dinner (:
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reader, happy484  +, writes (11 May 2010):
its not easy to have things to talk about ,but if u dont u wont make the bond u want with ur partner,so be inovative ,be creative,talk about every thing ,take the talk to deep level,ur memories specially the fun things,and his.ur favourite places ,the people u both like,mothers ,fathers and their relation with both of u,things u both done and no 1 else know about .go out have activity together watch a foreign movie together not translated and imagine what could the actors are saying ,specially indian movies they r romantic and verbal .
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reader, ANGELEYES21362000  +, writes (22 July 2008):
I know exactly how you feel... me and my boyfriend hve been going together for 11 months and we know EVERYTHING about each other or atleast it seems that way... you just gotta go dep down inside and find something that will keep yall both happy and smiling... && about the whole jealousy thing dont worry about it... jus be confident tht hes your man and know that nobodys gonna come in between yall and if so, you can move on to BIGGER and BETTER!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): I think that u shuld talk about things like how waz ur day.......wat are you doin this weekend....how is ur family....do u wanna go out to dinner...things like that...
but dont ever run out of things to say because that will make a relationship very boring...and it will make end really fast...try to make a joke here and there....and dont be jelous bcuz some guys get very annoyed...and some guys will do it just to annoy you....
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): i feel that when i talk to my boyfriend its easier to think of him as a really good friend that i can just say anything too and talk for hours. try telling him about your childhood, there's lots of good stories there! ask him about his and if he seems uncomfortable, change the subject, don't pressure him. just feel comfortable in your relationship and trust with you're with, it'll get you far
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008): umm i have been with my boyfriend for about the sometime you have been with yours .. so maybe one or both of you need to take a trip .. away for each other then when you came back together there will be a lot to talk about .. and about
jealousy you need to trust him with over ppl and believe that your the only one that he wants to be with ..
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): thats exactly how i feel though i havnt been dating my bf for that long... im not sure wuut to say on the phone to keep things intresting and im also finding im pretty jealous..... all my freinds have a HUGE crush on him! it makes me sooo UNEASY and if im busy they are all over him and trying to hang out with him and.. im not sure what to do either!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2008): put yourselves in a position in which conversation is easy to come by. for example, go somewhere together and look at the scenery. dont runaway from conversation together, but look for it, as avoiding it will only make matters worse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008): Well me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months he's so in love with me all he wants to do is talk about how much he loves me! It gets old. I wanna talk about him or something else. But I know everything about him. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2007): you should tell him how much u love him and how happy he makes you. Call him ur hottie bunches of oats.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007): well i've been in the same situation and we broke up after a year and a half.But my ex told me that it bugged him how i never would ask him question about him.He said he would have rather had me ask questions about anything instead of the silence!!!!He also told me that when were dating that i should have just trusted him and belived him and that the most anoying thing about me was when i asked him about other girls!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2007): I am SO jealous too.
and ive been with my guy for two years.
oh my gosh.
its insane
but i mean
he cheats on his girlfriends
so
i should be worried.
right?
ha idk.
but out conversations are based on the day
and what we want to do when we hang out.
like we talk about going somewhere
like the beach
and then we talk about where
when
with who
what to do
etc.
it works well when theres nothing else to say.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2007): Its ok at times if you cant make a great convosation.at some point theres gunna be times where theres nothing to gossip about.Try asking him questions becuase it usally leads you on to a good convosation that you could talk about 4 a long time.but for 18 months its pretty abnormal to have nothing to talk about.you should feel comfortable by 18 months.try being honest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2007): i had the exact same problem with my boyfriend so i know how you feel!whenever we have awkward moments,i ask him about his family and how they are and he talks for ages!keep asking him about himself and see how things go.if he doesn't ask about you back,you know he's not the one.hope this advice helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2007): Ok when i meant my boyfriend him and this gurl was already going and i he always tell me sweet stuff and still is and i think he is still falling in love with me but now i think he still is going with that gurl feel as though he is sharing his love with me and her, should i block him or still accepting these sweet messages?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2007): me and my boyfriend were going out for a year then broke up for a few months and now we are together again, its only been about a month and iv run out of things 2 say to him, and i think its because im so worried of losing him again i feel we need 2 be havin amazing convos 24/7 which makes me nervous and puts me under pressure to think of things to say. i think if u just relax it will come to you
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2006): i am a very jealous person also. just don't be jealous ! you have to trust him . if you don't have trust in your relationship then it will never work
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reader, nofrills +, writes (11 February 2006):
 If being together is such hard work, there's something wrong!
If you were compatible, you wouldn't be having this problem!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2006): ve been dating my boyfriend for a year we now we need more thing to talk about what sould i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2006): well i think that if you guys have been togetther for that long then you really have nothing to worry about ...Trust me being Jelous is never good it pushes them away...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2005): well.....just let him make conversation for awhile and as for the jealousy thing......you will have to trust that he wont do anything for you to be jealous about
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2005): Hmmm...I actually had the same problem. But why don't u stay quiet for a little bit and let him start the conversation?? and as for jealous person...that might be causing it...and putting boundaries on ur relationship cuz ur jealous. jealousy shows that ur insecure about urself and turns most guys off (shockingly) my comment to u is...establish ur self-esteem before u get into any type of relationship so u won't have jealousy problems.
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reader, harshbutfair  +, writes (18 April 2005):
 Maybe you need more interests in your life other than your partner? Then you would have more to talk about, and you won't be so sad when the relationship ends.
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