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My wife has recently transformed herself into a bit of a vamp, loosing
weight etc.when out she attracts male attention even when Im around.She`s
39 have 2 kids(16,7)Im 42 and in good order.I am not jealous type but
worry about her especially in one of her friends company.When in her
company they get very drunk. Worryingly once she got seperated from her
and could not find her way home to her friends. Her friend once grabed my
geneitals when drunk. My wife has also started going on girls only
holidays. she tells me she loves me and not to worry about her. But it is
begining to slowly wind me up and I feel if she is testing my responses
all the time. I admit before she met me she never partied like i but i am
trying cut her some space. Im finding it hard. I do talk to her about
keeping herself safe. But worry when in her friends company. When men
react to her when Im around god knows what it is like when Im not around?
I dont trust other men especially with things like date rape drugs.
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Nathan, writes (25 January 2005): No it's not alright mate.... I'd do the same in return... Go out and have some male only holidays... How does she feel about that !!!
A reader, louise, writes (23 January 2005): it sounds like because she didn't enjoy life when she was younger she's enjoying it now but she's taking it to far, get close friends to keep a close eye on her. the way she's going something seriouse is going to happen its ok to enjoy yourself every now and again.but if she's going out as much as she is.when she comes home at night sit her down the day after and talk to her, tell her how you feel, that you can't help but be worried about her. you love her and you don't want something bad to happen to her, so can she slow it down abit. i hope this has helped
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