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Rude women at the office...

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Question - (6 September 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 September 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Ok so to make a long story short. My boss told the two ladies Samantha and Cindy which i use to do all there filing and queries ect. So on Secretary day my boss told them they should also give something so that all three off them buy me something for my hard work. Then they told my boss i do nothing for them. He then said Ok from now on they will do all their work themselves and i (me) will no longer do their admin work or any other work for them. Only he will give me instructions what to do.

He and his wife bought my flowers and a present as well. So since last week samantha and cindy are not so nice with me anymore. Today Samantha did not even talk to me nor say good bye when it were time to go home. Cindy however shouted on me and said you know there is actualy some people that works and earns their money! But like shouting out loud. Today they also ate lunch by themselves normaly we all would have a small break together, now they exclude me. I dont complain about not doing their work, im actually relieved because it was a lot of stress and a lot of work and i didnt get paid for doing it. I'm very friendly with them even if they are not nice to me.

So they are like shouting where is this and where is that! I normally make some tea in the mornings, so cindy told me i should not make them tea anymore - that was last week so today i didnt make any. They both were talking loud out of their offices did you have some tea today!! So i just kept quiet and said well i wanted to make it but you said i shouldnt so i just left her office. If i talk to them they ignore me. And her stepsister is also enjoying this......

Please help me im feeling sad. But then im like thinking why am i sad i did nothing wrong.... If i did please help me from another point of view or what will you do if you were in my shoes?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2010):

Today they told me that i will do theire work for them but i dont think my boss knows they told me that, and its making me so sad. They said if i dont do what they tell me then they will make sure i dont have a job, since they are the once thats deciding for me to stay or go.. Do i ask my boss to move me to another office or department or do i have a meeting with him? Please help me....

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