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writes:Hello, i have been friends with this guy for over 10 years now. We started going out back then, but his ex complicated things so we remained friends and have been sleeping together occasionally. I had suggested a couple of times that we go steady but he didn't want to. We drifted apart at some point and haven't spoken for 4 years. Last month i called him up to ask him for help on an assignment i had. He came by right away and helped me. Then texted me later on that if i needed anything else i should call him up. So i did and he came by again and came on to me. I said i wanted a serious relationship and pushed him away. We kind of laughed it off and then went out again for drinks a couple days later. At the end of the night we kissed and while we were kissing he whispered "i love you" . I didn't pay much attention to that and we made out. He hasn't called me since. I am probably just a fuck buddy/friend to him but i wanted another opinion, just to stop me from wondering. Thanks!
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (11 November 2012):
 Seeing as how you haven't heard from him in 4 years and he only declared his love AFTER you made an exclusive commitment a condition for having sex, I would say his 'I love you' is insincere.
He told you that because he thinks you might be dumb enough or desperate enough to believe him. And in fairness to him, he probably thought your call for help was a ruse to get him back in your life. To be honest it does look that way to me.
If he's gone, let him stay gone. He obviously managed fine without you all those years. That says it all.
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