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writes:I'm an adult male who is experimenting with anal sex for my first time with my girlfriend of a couple years. She's had anal sex in previous relationships though. I only mention this in case it may be a factor in some way.When inserting a finger I feel stuff up there which is very noticeable and kinda hard along the skin. I've never thought much of it being a newbie at this and assumed that it's just (the stuff that should be in that canal) but after a while I'm noticing that it seems to always be in the same spot and now the last few times we've messed around that way I've noticed that there's more of it/them and if I touch into them/it to see if it/they move around or if attached she gives me a physical response of what seems to be pain so I can't follow through with that experiment.Is this common/normal and just what I think it is or is there reason for concern?Responses only from readers who are experienced with what I'm speaking of please...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008): Yeah I agree with velvetluv, you should definately tell your girlfriend that you think you can feel something odd. Its for the best as anal sex can cause damage if done excessivly. You mentioned that your girlfriend had done anal sex before so without knowing the frequency its hard to tell if damage has been caused. But definately at least tell her your concerned. She should get to a Doctor just to be sure.
good luck.
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reader, Dr T  +, writes (16 April 2008):
Good God man, advise that woman to a Doctor!!!
As for anal sex, i have had several partners who very much enjoyed it and one in particular who had the most tremendous orgasms from anal! If it gives her pleasure then go for it, but health comes first.
BTW: have you discussed this with her?
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reader, velvetluv21 +, writes (16 April 2008):
I'm a girl so I don't know much about what it feels like on your end but i'm a nurse so I know what is and should be there. The colon, especially a few inches from the anus is completely surrounded by muscle and various nerves to help with pooing. It should feel firm and smooth. If you feel significant bumps or anything you can actually pinch with your fingers then it is highly recomended to see a doctor. The muscles in the area are not designed to easily stretch so if you do put pressure on them, it will be uncomfortable and possibly hurt which is most likey why she acted that way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008): I only had anal sex once i was kind of curious. It did nothing for me, guess i got caught up in all the talk from everyone else. I wouldn't bother if i were you.
Good luck
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