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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hello everyone.(Early) happy holidays!So the story goes; Early April last year, me and two (at that time ONLY) close friends had a small argument that ended with the "silent treatment". The "silent treatment" lasted from April, through June (end of school/beginning of summer-break) til the beginning of next semester,27th August (Good to know: they both congratulated me on my birthday through text messages 18th of August, even though we hadn't spoken in 4 months)All three of us began small talking again in school and through text messaging, but unfortunately, that didn't last very long.Long story short; Today was the last day of school cause of the holidays. They both texted me happy holidays (from out of nowhere) and later that evening they both said that they were ready to forget everything and to start on a new chapter, IF I want to.I wholeheartedly wouldn't mind us being friends again AT ALL.To the point now! School starts back again 7th of January and one of these two friend's birthday is on the 9th. I was thinking of getting her a birthday gift, then somehow snatch her keys for a brief moment and put the gift inside of her locker. The question is; What do I get?!Thank you all in advance!
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reader, Candid Cally  +, writes (22 December 2012):
Instead of a birthday gift for one, why not buy both of them gifts to celebrate the holidays? This way the friend who doesn't have a birthday in early January won't feel jealous or left out. (even if you think it won't bother her, it will if you missed her birthday last year, or haven't given her a gift for the holidays.)
If you and your close friends have barely spoken for around six months, this was a lot more than a 'small argument.' Whatever happened, I hope all of you have worked it out, otherwise, it will continue to affect your friendship.
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