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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well last year I use to like this boy [boy 1] and it was pretty obvious that i liked him, well to me anyways. Now it seems I've gotten over him since he got himself a girlfriend. However, I've come to like one of his friends [boy 2] and he's witnessed me flirt with boy 1. I've noticed that boy2 has become more opened with me and is even nicer to me now, he's gotten me in the habit of letting him walk me to one of my classes and when we walk he is really close to me. He also finds excuses for our hands to touch. Once my friend sat behind us and told me that he would ignore his friend to talk or listen to me and that when he talked to me it was different.Now, i thought he liked me but when my friend asked him for me if he liked me he said no. He also said he was aware that i have a small crush on him. Later that day he held hands with me when i was learning how to skate and messed with me by trying to make me fall. It was funny how he only did that to me and not to my friend which is his friend too. This confused me so much. i think he likes me since lately he's been giving me his attention. But i don't understand why he hasn't confronted me. Is it because he saw me like his friend and is weird about it? Is he scared of me? We are also of a different race but i asked him once and he dates out of his race too so why do you think he's not telling me his feelings?Also, boy 1, we were close but this year we've drifted apart, ever since he got a girlfriend. My friend thinks that since he might have had a crush on me last year, it reminds me of it when he sees me and since he now has a girlfriend he doesn't want to think about it. is this possible?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008): Hello sorry no one has answered your question yet but i will have a try.
Alway ask your questions to the person not to a persons friend. If they do not like what you are asking they may make up a lie.
As you grow older you will notice people add little bits to stories or take little bits away. This is to mould them to form a preferable outcome in their favour.
Again always go directly to the person of which your question is aimed at.
Now if you are shy, you have to conquer that fear.
Be brave for God will follow you whereever you go.
Good luck
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