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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Physically and emotionally, I'm certain I'm ready to lose my virginity. I'm in a relationship (albeit a long-distance one) with a man whom I care about very deeply indeed, and I know the love and trust I feel for him is reciprocated. Even if we weren't to last forever I wouldn't regret not having had my first time with someone else, of that I'm sure. What's the problem then? Well... there's some sort of mental barrier which holds me back from going all the way when I have the chance to. I can't work out whether it's mine, based on valid reasons to wait even if I can't think of any consciously, or simply a result of negative conditioning with regard to sex - of which there was a *lot* growing up. I don't know what to do. Take a chance and push through this final inhibition, or simply hang on a bit longer and hope it resolves itself? Many thanks in advance for any advice! Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (25 July 2011):
 Hang on a bit longer..you aren't ready.
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reader, Jay_xxxxx +, writes (25 July 2011):
 I lost my virginity at a really young age and I regret my decision, I wish I waited till I was really. I understand what you meant by the fact that you have something stopping you, listen to it this may be something that's telling you that your really not as ready as you think you are. Instead of sex try different things, this will make you feel more ready, and it could get rid of that barrier.I hope I helped Jay x x x
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