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*atherineAn
writes:Hi Guys! I've been learning to squirt. When i play with toy on my g spot i do feel like pee and just before orgasm i feel like i have to push, i push with my mussels. But no liquid coming out. I do have an orgasm, but no ejaculation. Why is that? And even if I go after to pee it wont come out so easy. I need to spend some time in the bathroom before it happens. Can somebody explain me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2008): Hey, it's Ems.
Yay. I'm so happy for you. I know how much you wanted it.
As a squirter myself, I have to say that as far as I know I've only squirted with G-spot simulation. I find it hard to orgasm though. I have only ever achieved clitoral orgasms when I'm in the shower, so it's hard to tell if I've squirted or bot by it.
But I can also tell you that when I'm on my knees I find it alot easier to orgasm and squirt.
Does it really matter anyway? You've squirted whether or not it was clitoral or G-spot. The point is... YOU CAN DO IT. :D
Congratulations.
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reader, CatherineAn +, writes (28 August 2008):
CatherineAn is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOMG. It finally happened to me. I was playing with my toy vibrator first on my knees with my clit, usually I do it laying down. And then I had an orgasm and i looked down and my panties were all wet, they were down on my legs and liquid was still coming out. It was so unexpected that I got scared for a second and it stopped. It was transparent liquid but it seems that it smell a little like pee. Did anybody had same experience? Is ejaculation possible from clit stimulation? or I peed? :)
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reader, CatherineAn +, writes (28 August 2008):
CatherineAn is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOMG. It happened to me finally! I was playing with my toy vibrator. But this time instead of laying down I first time was on my knees playing with clit and then I had an orgasm, I looked and my panties, they were a bit down on my legs, and everything around was wet and liquid was still coming out. It was so unexpected that i got scared for a second. But it was nice filing at the same time. And now I have a question: can ejaculation be from clit stimulation? Did anybody had same experience, cause I always thought that it comes from g spot stimulation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2008): It's Ems again,
Hahaha, thank you CatherineAn. Just relax, you never know, maybe you are one of the "lucky" 2% of women too.
I find hitting the G-spot with my fingers really brings it on.
Hope you get their. Don't pressure yourself.
Goodluck, Ems.
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reader, CatherineAn +, writes (22 August 2008):
CatherineAn is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Ems!Congratulations!!! I think it is the sexiest thing!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2008): Hi, my name's Ems.
Sorry but only 2% of women can squirt the way you want to. It's very uncommon and it's not something you can learn to do, it's just something that very few women do naturally. If you are one of those 2% then forcing it won't help... You just need to relax and feel comfortable.
I am one of those "lucky" women and believe me... If you did it everytime you had an orgasm you'd soon get sick of it.
I always have to sleep in the wet patch and I can't have sex without a towel at hand. :P
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (21 August 2008):
 Not everyone is a gusher. Dont beat yourself up about it! Accept it. Its a lot tidier!
C xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2008): It's very real but not something that's easily controlled. You just have to be very relaxed, any tension at all can avoid this from happening and I'm guessing you may be trying too hard. Next time just clear your mind and let go of controlling your body.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2008): I may be wrong about this, but I've heard that it's very uncommon for women to have a "squirting" orgasm. You may just not be able to do it.
I know that squirting is often exaggerated and faked in pornography (they pump water into the woman's vagina before filming the "squirting scene").
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