A
male
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Why is it so acceptable for women to be bi sexual, and when men are bi sexual women seem to think it's wrong? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (2 August 2009):
Um hi.
I think you are tarring ALL us girls with the same brush.
Girls probably have an easier time with bisexuality because men then assume that steamy threesomes and all those porn films they have at home are finally going to come true.
Not all women will have a problem with your bisexuality. You've just been unlucky so far.
As a bisexual myself I can understand how it causes issues in a relationship because some people count same sex stuff as cheating and some don't.
I think the problem you may have found is that these women are threatened by the thought of you wanting to go off with someone else. It's just a case of reassuring them that you are a one-person-man.
Be with one person and commit to them and you will find it easier. (Very sneaky use of porn on the side is always helpful for the rest. Remember to delete your history!!)
Good Luck!! xx
A
reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): The very same reason why mean think they are better than women. Since people have the stereotype that men generally are superiors of women, stepping down to their level is a disgrace. But when women step up in our level, it's something good because they just simply wants to become stronger. But with men, being bisexual is an inch away for being gay and effeminately weak. That's why. In the real world, equilibrium is very hard to come up with.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): That's women for you - they want it all ways.
Equality when it suits them, priviledge when it doesn't.
Welcome to the hard real world, my friend - we are the oppressed minority these days.
...............................
|
