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writes:I'm 14, Will i ever get a boyfriend?All my friends have boy friends and i feel pressured to get one, other wise i will be left out :(I want a boyfriend but i don't really have any guy friends that i hang out with or see anymore. Most of my friends are girls :/ Reply to this Question
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reader, La Sad Girl  +, writes (11 May 2010):
Ok so i know how u feel i have mostly girl friends cuz i dnt like middle skool guys there immature i only have guy friends tht are in high skool or already out the thing is dnt feel pressured jus cuz u dnt got a bf if u got good friends they wud go out wit u leaving there bf at home or somthin live ur life u dnt want a bf right now.Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2010): im 15 and when i was 14 i was always asking if i would ever get a bf. well i havent yet. i still want one. but dont act like you want one. dont be all looking for one cuz guys will notice and not want that. my friends have bfs too. i suddenly forgot about getting a bf and guys started coming to me and im still surprised by it. itll be okay. just relax and pay attention to other things and theyll start showing up ;)
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reader, greenflower +, writes (11 May 2010):
You're 14. You're young. You have plenty of time to find a boyfriend. Don't worry about these things. First of all, don't worry about finding a boyfriend.
Your first goal should be finding things you like to do and things you have fun doing. When you expand your social life, you meet lots of new people. Maybe then you'll find a boy that likes the same things as you.
And don't think you need a boyfriend. First, find a boy you genuinely like and just try dating. Believe me, the idea of a boyfriend is great but you can't date someone just so you fit in with everyone else who have boyfriends. cuz then the relationship doesn't mean anything.
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (11 May 2010):
 You are obviously at an age where you take too much notice of what other people say. Just be yourself. Whether or not you decide to look for a boyfriend, be yourself.
No-one else should be in control of your life. If you let your friends tell you what to do, they win rather than you.
The main thing is not to get bitter or angry if you get rejected by some guy. When I was 17, I developed a bitterness complex because the girls kept rejecting me. It was not a good attitude.
By the way, you should look for a guy who is caring. Not just one who is good looking. It is the inner beauty that counts with men or women.
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