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Popular slut wanted sex, I said no and now I'm labeled a fag?

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Question - (29 September 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 30 September 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I was at a party two weeks ago and a lot of kids were drinking beer. Not me cause I am only 17. A really really hot popular girl from my class was drunk off her ass and was having sex with guys at the party. She was with at least 3 guys that I knew about.

As the party was winding down about midnight she got me cornered and told me how she always thought I was hot and that we should go out. Then she started kissing me. She shoved her tongue in my mouth and it tasted like stale beer and cigarettes. It was pretty f'in nasty so I tried to pull away. Just then she grabbed my hand and shoved it up her skirt. Her privates were pretty sloppy (soggy and wet) from the other guys she was with that night and it made me sick to my stomach. So I pulled away and pretty much ran off to wash my hand and get some mouth wash.

Well she got super pissed off that I dissed her in front of everybody, so she started screaming at me calling me a fag and a homo. Now everyone around school is calling me a faggot, queer boy, fudge packer, you name it.

I used to be popular enough to get invited to parties, but now I am at the bottom of the food chain at school. I went from kinda popular to gay nerd overnight. How can I fix this? Sloppy sex girl is too popular to go back at.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (30 September 2009):

Who cares about the other guys. And watch the post below.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2009):

Dude a similar thing happened to me. By senior year the popular slag got an STD, which everyone found out about because she f'ed every damn athlete in our class. They all got the same STD and it got traced back to her.

As soon as the jocks found out her vag was swamped and she was off limits her popularity tanked.

It'll happen. Just wait for it... wait for it...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2009):

I agree- you did the right thing. Not wanting to mix your spunk with 3 other guys is smart - god knows what kind of toxic soup was in her crotch.

So the local whore child was offended you wouldn't be part of the train... tough for her. I'd simply tell your story to a dozen people - preferably 2 or 3 with big mouths and let it fly like the old party game - before long it will be embelished beyond your wildest dreams...

Or, just put something on her facebook wall...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009):

Dude trust me, you did the right thing. Some people will have you believe that you're not a man unless you screw anything that moves but the harsh truth is that most self-respecting guys avoid a slag. Who wants to bang a bio dumpster? My experience says that it's the desperate guys who are taking advantage of situations like that because it's the only way they can get laid.

The slag's reaction is normal. Sad but normal. By dissing her in front of everyone you smashed her ego. Now she's trying to make you pay for it. I know that the whole popularity thing is important in highschool but it takes courage to get what you want in life. The "easy" thing to do would be to yield to her advances, but you didn't want to and you went after what YOU wanted. Never feel guilty about going after the things you want. It's your life. Oh, and everyone knows you're not gay, trust me on that. They're just taking her side cause she's popular. Later on, when you get a nice, DECENT gf while she ends up quacking feminist bullshit on oprah, saying how all men are pigs and how she's a sweet, caring, sexually liberated modern woman who can't get a man if her life depended on it, you'll be proud that you didn't settle for drunken sloppy seconds (or worse) with the school slut.

Good job. Wish i'd been there to see it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009):

Ask 'em who's the fag - the guy who wants to coat his junk with other guys' stuff, or someone who wants a girl all to himself. Just say that you'd rather go where no man's gone before, that you're not into sloppy seconds or any of the nasty bugs the guys there before you left behind.

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