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Please help me understand this man

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Question - (25 November 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 26 November 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *upidsPrincess1 writes:

Simple. I like a certain guy even when I have a bf. Forget my bf for a while, pls. This guy looks like also likes me but I am not sure how much. We text at times where I start it and re responds always. He is working,busy. And is v sweet to me, all smily and is williing to help. We know each other for months and we are on FB too.

But he doesn't make eye contact much when we r not alone! He may or may not smile. And sometimes walks off as I don't exist when I am with someone. Once he did that and I too did not bother to look at him but then he came back to talk to me. Lol. And then later I just ignored him while through the corner of the eye I caught him looking at me.

I have heard that men are not complicated beings. But why is he not consistent in his behaviour? Is he shy?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2010):

No, you're not having an affair but you're asking if another guy is interested in you. If you're in a relationship already then why do you want to know about this other guy? You said yourself that you like him even though you have a boyfriend. If you're wondering if he likes you too then that says to me you want to persue something.

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A female reader, CupidsPrincess1 United Kingdom +, writes (25 November 2010):

CupidsPrincess1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

It is not really like that I don't care about my boyfriend. I am not having an affair. It is no mistake to like someone, its beyond ur control. But I do wonder why this person behaves like this when we are sort of friends. I have some freedom with him. I do feel that he is hiding something as it looks like he avoids eye contact. And it puzzles me the way he looks at me whenever he does.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2010):

"I like a certain guy even when I have a bf. Forget my bf for a while, pls."

Doesn't sound like you care about your boyfriend from that statement. Instead of asking whether this other guy likes you i suggest you dump your boyfriend first because you obviously don't care about his feelings. Once you're single you can persue this other guy then you'll find out if he wants you.

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (25 November 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntIt sounds more like he's just shy... anything else would just be speculative.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2010):

~YES~

And you make him have butterflies so he's embarrassed to look at you...he feels ticked and on cloud nine with you...

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