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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi my girlfriend is very great.we are loving each other since 5 years.recently she joined in a corporate company.she talks to guys friends very rarely and with limit before joining company.But now she is talking with one person, she told that he is her best friend in the office.after 4 months she is behaving diffrently from last 2 monthsshe is talking with him after office hours that to after night 10 to 2 o clock.when i ask her she is saying that she was talking with her parents.one day i confirmed that she is talking to that guy.i asked her, she told again wrong answer(ie with her sister).At least she is not responding to my call while talking to him...... what it mean? what should i do?(can i ask to leave that job?)i cant leave her because i love her so much.give me a solution.my mind is not controlling.one time my mind is saying to end life.please give me your valuble solutions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): stop giving her much attention and get out more and get other women. not necesarily to get girl friends but friends and talk to them and see response but keep her close. mimick her way of talking with other men and do it to women and you'll see what happens
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reader, clobear  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 well my boyfriend thinks the same, i call my best lad mate alot and he gets really paranoid. truth is, maybe shes lying so you dont go mad at her and she is just chatting as a friend. however why should she lie if theres nothing to hide. tell her that you dont mind her chatting to lads aslong as you know about it. you obviously are starting to not trust her and if thers no trust in the relationship then you dont have much.
talk to her and try to be honest about how you feel.
hope it works out, good luck, chloe x
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 She is not married to you yet and you cannot control her.
If she is bend on doing and lying about it, there is not much
you can do except to confront her and the results may go against you.
You can suffer in silence or you confront her and lose her...
You do not have much options to choose.
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