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writes: I am married for nearly 2 years, its been a tough road to be honest, after 7 months of marriage my husband leaves to clear his head, i never got any reason only that he was confused, i asked him was there someone else, he said no. He dicussed this with his friends prior to me finding out which mad me angry because i reckon he should have spoken to me about any problems, but he said he did not want to hurt me. Anyhow, after 3 months breakup he asked me back, i went back, had problems getting over this and separted again for another three months during this three months I had a fling with a guy i previously knew. After loads of dicussion, i am back in my marriage, however, now i am riddled with guilt and dont know what to do, we are getting on now better that ever, like when we first met and our marriage is going well. Do you think our marriage has any chance of surviving or is this just a hopeless case and things will resurface again? any advise would be great. Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 Just live from day to day and enjoy each other.
Let the future takes care of itself.
We don't know and cannot see the future.
If it comes, we will have to accept whatever happens.
Live in the present and don't worry about the future.
Leave the future to God.
Whatever happened, has happened.
You cannot change the past.
It is history.
Throw away those old and useless baggage.
They don't do you any good.
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