| A
female
,
anonymous
writes: Well there's this lad who I'm amazing mates with. He says I make him laugh more than anyone he knows, and that I'm an ace mate, and that he gets on with me better than my other female friends whom he talks to. He asked me one day to help him find a girlfriend. I was dying to say "me", but I decided that was selfish. I suggested a friend of mine, he said he wans't that into her, but a date has been agreed. Now I feel really jealous and upset towards my friend, cos she says she really likes him. I know it's wrong to feel like this. What do I do?
View related questions:
jealous Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, happytochat  +, writes (18 April 2006):
Its totally not wrong to feel the way you do. You can't help who you like, so don't be so hard on yourself!
Now your friend may like this guy, but the question is, does he like her back? If he doesn't then you have every right to move in on him. She will be ok, its not like shes in love with him really is she.
Your guy mate who you really like could have the exact smae feelings back for you! You jsut don't know it. He probably just LOVES the friendship you 2 have and is to afraid to make a move on you fearing that you don't feel the same way back, therefor ruining the friendship. Tell him how you feel!!!! Since you guys are so close, i doubt that if he doesnt for some strange reason not like you back in that way, get in the way of your friendship. Just make a joke of it and things will be ok.
Too many people don't tell someone how they feel due to fear of ruining waht they have, but if you do this all the time then you might very well miss out on something great and thats not fair either.
Be brave girl and tell him how you feel! You won't feel right until you've got it off your chest.
|
