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writes: Hi again, this is the second time I have posted the first is under "Can we be more than friends or has she gone off me?". Anyway I took the advice I was given to give her space and let her decide for herself and it sort of worked so thanks. We were at this party and over the past week she had been really flirty with me and we were just cuddling up with each other and she kissed me. However she went all funny again when I asked are we together now she says that I am lovely but she is worried that she would mess things up and we wouldn't be friends any more. She told me we should just see how things go. But I don't know what to do because i really like her and this is the second time she has built me up just to let me down. Should I give up or what????????????????
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reader, Mr.Ed +, writes (19 December 2005):
 Well you made it this far; why in the hell would you give up now. Look things in this world don't happen on your time nor your terms. You write the movie and someone messes up the script. Boy meets girl, boy get's girl then what are you going to do. I know, RUN OUTSIDE AND SMELL THE AIR. You need to slow down romeo. She kissed you and guess what. That's what you wanted to begin with, now you want to know whether to give up or not. Maybe you should gloat on the kiss for a month or two before we go to second base. Try to value the limited time you two have together. Yeah, Yeah, girls say alot of things about your this and your that but YOU should'nt worry so much about it. Just love her for who she is. It will come back ten fold. Trust me, women are really cool when you cool your jets. Besides, don't forget there's someone else who just might be interested in you that your NOT paying any attention too. LOOK AROUND until she comes around. Just don't ignore her. Sincerely Ed
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