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*anielle90
writes:my mom and dad just caught me and my bf having sex. we are both 18. we are very much in love and we been going out for a year. we were doing it but really quiet but they both walked in and saw us naked and i was on top of my bf. Both are pissed off. Now i cant see him for a while... what can i do to see him again?? what should i do to to get my mom and dad from being pissed and talking to me again? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008): Don't have sex at your parents house. Get your own place. You are 18 they cannot stop you. Respect them but tell them you are an adult and can see who you want. I still think its best you move out though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008): Frankly, you're 18, you're an adult. You need to sit down with your parents and talk this all out. They need to understand that you're an adult now, and that they can no longer dictate things like that to you. You need to make sure they know that you understand all about contraception etc and are taking the appropriate precautions. You need to compromise though - maybe say you won't have sex in their house/something like that.
You are still, to them, their little girl, and it's hard for any parent to completely let go of their child, but you really need to talk to them about this.
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (3 December 2008):
It propably is a shock that made them realize you are an adult and not their baby girl anymore. I think that you need to respect your parents home and not have sex there. You are 18 so get a place of your own and have sex there.
As far as seeing him again you just have to wait for your parents to calm down.
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