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Our we just prolonging a failed relationship?

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Question - (24 June 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male United States age 26-29, *umbluck writes:

My girlfriend and I are really really close. She seems to never want to lose me (This is a high school relationship so not sure how accurate that is). She likes me a lot and I like her a lot. But just a couple of days ago she gets really angry at me because I got jealous that she was talking to her other guy friend and that they were close like "siblings".

I got angry at that and yes that was super idiotic of me because there's nothing to really be jealous about now that I think about it. But she got angry at me because this happens tons in our relationship because I'm a jealous F**ker that can't control my emotions. I have issues.. a lot of issues. I'm trying to be less prone to jealousy.

She broke up with me on the same day that she got angry at me because she couldn't take that **** anymore. She felt like it was a "daily routine" for us. She said that she likes me because I care for her but she didn't think that it was worth it to stay in the relationship. About 2 hours after she broke up she called me and said that she was stupid and that she missed me a lot. That she couldn't sleep for those 2 hours because she kept tossing and turning in her bed.(This is at 2:00 in the morning) She said that I was always in her mind and that she didn't want to leave me. That she regretted what she did and she knew that she shouldn't have broke up with me. I said that I want to get back with her.

Its been a couple of days since that incident and I feel that the connection that we used to have is nothing but a small wire compared to before which was a 10 foot thick steel cord. She doesn't talk to me like she used to and shes afraid that I will get jealous again and she doesn't want to go through that **** anymore.I'm afraid there is a bigger chance of her leaving me for another guy now (Shes really popular and I'm not even close to that). I'm wondering if Our relationship will get any better any time soon. Or that its over and we are prolonging a super fail relationship.

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