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writes: The first few months or so of my relationship he used to phone or at least send sweet good night texts every day. This stopped and seemed as though we wouldn't talk unless it was me that called. We didn't have sex for about 3 weeks and he said that he was stressed and busy, that's why he couldn't see me. He never really had a high sex drive from when I first met him. I have been with him for 4 months. What should I do?
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reader, missdee +, writes (22 September 2005):
Any relationship is sugar and spice when it is new. After a while they all settle down. You didn't say how old this man is or what kind of job he is holding. He could be stressed from the work, however, I don't see why he couldn't at least make a call. To show you he's thinking about you.
Maybe you should try backing off from him. Don't call him, just wait and let him call you. If he really cares about you and feels he is losing you then he will start doing his part to make the relationship work. Give it alittle time. If he continues not to call or give you the attention you need move on to somebody else.
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