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writes: hi i m 27 male and belong to an orthodox indian family and i m madly in love with a girl of different caste who is 21 n studying. we are in this relationship for the past 1 year and she loves me truely as well . but we got seperated almost 5 times in past 1 yr due to her lack of confidence to convince her parents for an intercast marriage. our only obstacle is that she cannot see tears in her parents eyes and if she tells them about our relationship they will be hurt . we want to marry each other but with our parents acceptance so i neither can leave her nor i m able to wait for her . what to do ..??
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reader, JaffaZ  +, writes (28 October 2007):
 Hmmmm... that's a tricky one. Have you tried meeting her parents before? Even as just "a friend"? Because if they get to know you and like you, they might be alright with it. If you truly love each other, you should be together, despite a difference in caste. Try to find some advantages to having an intercaste marriage that she can use to convince her parents. Or get her to tell her parents about you, how much she loves you, all your good qualities, etc, and "forget" to mention your caste, or leave it until after they have a good impression of you before telling them. As her parents, they should want her to be happy no matter what... right?
I hope something I said helps at least a little bit...
Good luck!!
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