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Our first sex toy - any advice?

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Question - (23 April 2010) 9 Answers - (Newest, 4 May 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *anessajunroy writes:

Hi, I'm new to this site and just wanted to introduce myself and ask a question.

Recently me and my partner have been having alot of sex, and we wanted to make things more interesting.

Like bringing sex toys into the bedroom. Neither of us have used them before

A friend reccomended me a site called platinum passion.

Just wanted to know if anyone had used it and what it was like ? i've never used sites like this before and i wanted to use a site that people know.

Also what sex toy do you think that we should introduce? theres so many and i dont know what to go for.

Thanks

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A female reader, vanessajunroy United Kingdom +, writes (4 May 2010):

vanessajunroy is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Well, what a wonderful weekend with my little pearl.

It was amazing :)

It was countlessly used! deffinately reccomend it.

Not only was it good for solo use whilst my partner was at work.

But worked well to stimulate his balls with the vibrations.

And he loved using it on me :)

Anyway, I'm off again!

Thanks everyone :)

x

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A male reader, pyan Australia +, writes (29 April 2010):

my wife says enjoy she has for ages and when i am away she uses it daily. it can be anyone you like.....

lets us know how you like it

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A female reader, vanessajunroy United Kingdom +, writes (28 April 2010):

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YAY Arrived this morning, about.. 10 minutes ago.

I ordered a bcute pearl, from platinum passion.

Pretty speedy delivery :) impressed.

Havn't used it yet but have taken in out of it's box, its so exciting.

I will let you know what it's like once i've used it.

I think this has become something more for me than him now. but never mind, he can use it on me :)

Thanks

Ness :)

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A female reader, vanessajunroy United Kingdom +, writes (26 April 2010):

vanessajunroy is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for all your advice everyone.

Have ordered one off that site my friend reccomended me this morning. so i will let you know what they are like.

I did want to use anne summers, because they seem so expensive.

I will let you all know when it arrives and what its like :)

Thank youuuu.

:)

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (23 April 2010):

chigirl agony auntGo for a simple vibrator. That will guarantee you both pleasure. The guy can get pleasure from the vibration as well. Here's how I use some of mine: you can use it while giving him a blowjob, press the vibrator gently against his shaft while you work on his head with your tongue and lips, or you can press the vibrator against the skin between his balls and his anus (or even further down for the truly experimental ones among us). If you use the vibrator on you during intercourse, he will still be able to feel the vibrations as well. You should press the vibrator against your clitoris when he is inside you. The best positions for this can be doggystyle, him on the side of the bed on his knees with your feet on his shoulders or around his waist (a favourite of mine), or him laying on his side in bed with you on your back, making a sort of x-formation.

The best would be a smaller vibrator as you will be able to use this in more sexual positions witout it being in the way. But you also need something that offers a good grip. I prefer my medium sized vibrator, it's very simple wit no fancy fancy stuff, and a solid vibration to it. I'd also recommend you buy a vibrator with adjustable speeds! You might not be comfy with the higher speeds at first try so having one with a slow low speed will be the best for beginners.

Now, if you want a vibrator just for you to use in bed the rabbit might be better as Ive only heard great things about it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2010):

the only ones i can suggest for beginners are bullet vibes.... (my other half calls them finger vibes) i wouldnt suggest anything too big at this stage. Im unsure of wat they would be called over in britan.... Thats just wat we call them in aus.

:D

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A male reader, pyan Australia +, writes (23 April 2010):

hi

try the rabbit type (with the beeds and clit tickler we introduce it manay years ago and my wife still love it and uses it most weeks

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A female reader, vanessajunroy United Kingdom +, writes (23 April 2010):

vanessajunroy is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks for your reply.

I will deffinately remember that.

but is there any toys that you can recommend?

x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2010):

hey there, using toys whilst doing the deed can be very pleasurable. But first u would need to select the toy. As ur new to the 'toys' side of sex i would suggest getting something small. U dont want to go buying the biggest toy on the planet. Try a small bullet vibe first. And all u need to do to get used to it is play with it by urself first. i would also suggest toy cleaner. To keep it nice and fresh. Now when it comes to sex there are many different things u could try.

1. Try sliding it into ur vagina whilst ur bf is in there to. U have to be on top for this to work. And he has to hold it in place.

2. try doing doggy style and rest the vibrator on ur clitoris. It feels amazing if he goes slow when thrusting.

3. U may not want to try this but it can be very pleasing. With the vibe, lube it up and rub it around ur anus. This gives u a different but wonderful feeling.

I hope i helped u a little bit. Good luck

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