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writes:help can anyone give me some oral sex tips i never get my husband to ejaculate during oral sex help anyone
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (6 July 2011):
 Best thing to do is ask your husband... every man likes it differently.... and even that changes from incident to incident...
sometimes he wants it deep
sometimes he likes my hands and mouth
sometimes he wants anal play...
while you have to be willing to be flexible and cooperative
HE has to be willing to TELL YOU what he needs and wants...
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reader, doublejack +, writes (6 July 2011):
I have to agree with the second anonymous poster. There are some guys, I'm one of them, who just aren't into oral enough to get off from it. It feels great and I would never decline a lover's offer to give me oral, but I have only experienced ONE orgasm from oral.
A former girlfriend set out to prove that she could give me an orgasm from a bj, and she literally worked at it for two hours. No exaggeration. Her jaw got very sore so she finally gave up.
Your husband could be of this type. Maybe he's just not comfortable enough with the idea, in which case the advice already given will help. But it is also possible that penetration is just what gets him off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2011): Hard to know why he is having problems with so little detail, but I would say that even the most uninhibited man may struggle a bit with this form of intimacy. Some may just prefer to orgasm other wasys. My current lover who is far, FAR more sexually experienced than me was a bit shy at first. His bit of shyness was a turn-on to me as I wanted oral to be special and unique to us.
To get him more comfortable I apply alot of kissing to his penis, not just sucking and throating. That made him feel like I am loving his stuff which of course is a part of him. I also massage and rub his knees and legs while doing him. After a nice bath or shower oral is just an extension of beginning of foreplay. Not just an act to 'get off' though that is cool too.
I make sure to kiss and caress his penis after wards too. He started to really respond after a few sessions of this. It not unheard of that man could be shy about this. Or some just do not orgasm from it. Though they still may enjoy it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2011): Firstly ask him what sort of things he likes that turn him on, and use these.
secondly mayby consider sex toys to make it more fun and pleasurable?
if non of these work just make sure you arerelaxed and just keep trying until you both get really horny.
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