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*pades
writes:I don't feel anything towards men. Everytime I meet someone I think I'm attracted too, that slight feeling fizzles out quickly. I don't know why. I have never been more confused in my life. Someone could tell me they loved me and it wouldn't phase me. I don't know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, Spades +, writes (20 June 2010):
Spades is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you everyone for your advice.
I have had boyfriends before. I think this feeling started after one of them dumped me. I was hurt obviously, but I've long since gotten over it. He now has a new girlfriend and that no longer bothers me. This happend a little over a year ago. I've dated people since but I can't seem to maintain those feelings.
I'm not sure if this is what triggered it, but it's the only thing I can think of. But I don't know why it would bother me now since, like I said, I'm long since over it..
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): I'm just like you. I see a guy I like once in a blue moon. I am 25 and never had a boyfriend because I want to be very attracted to the guy I date. I don't think that is too much to ask for. I would never date somebody I don't find attractive just for the sake of having a boyfriend, which is something most girls do.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (19 June 2010):
 You probably just haven't met the right guy. I was the same way until my current boyfriend came along, then it was like a light switch in my brain. Guys would like me but I wouldn't care, I'd just brush them off.
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reader, derval  +, writes (19 June 2010):
I can't really offer much advice, but I can let you know you're not alone: I used to be exactly like that. I liked somebody for a little while and then just stopped abruptly; I blamed it on hormones as it often occured around the 14th day of my cycle or while I was PMSing, but it could be due to anything at all, really!
But everything has worked out for me so I hope you'll have luck just like mine. Don't give up on love. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): Maybe you just haven't met the "Mister Right". Or the "Miss Right", who knows...
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