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Oh so confused...

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Question - (10 March 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 March 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi,

I met this girl roughly 2 years ago through a different girl i was dating at the time. i didnt really think much of her at first but as the years have gone by, we have got closer to eachother. Im afriad i have fallen head over heels for her to the point where i really would do anything just to make sure she is happy.

my friend was chatting to her where she admitted she likes me as a friend only. But that same night she was hugging/kissing(on the cheek)/holdning my hand etc etc. Im really afraid to aks where i stand because i really wouldnt want to lose what we have. Its all a bit of a mess and i am very confused on what to do. Unfortunately for me, she has my heart!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008):

I would not stress actually. There may be a possibility that she is into you. Mmmm just get that feeling.

I wouldnlt tell her anything yet. I think you should create opportunities, nights out with whoever in the crew, and continue to do what you are doing. Be attentive, give her compliments and flirt a bit. Test the waters so to speak. If she has behaved rather amourously in the past, encourage that and recipricate.

Let it all happen naturally, create your opportunities with her and you will soon find out if she is a contender!

All the best, keep your mouth shut and get quietly into your charasmatic, women wooing mode!

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A female reader, shoe_lover United Kingdom +, writes (10 March 2008):

shoe_lover agony auntgo for it , just come out with it , or get her to tell you , true love is hard to find mate x

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