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*hic0289
writes:Hey im 17 and I have a boyfriend that is really great, he's sweet, smart and very good looking. Im going to college next year but i don't want a boyfriend in college just because i don't want to be so committed and obligate to one person just yet. He is really serious about our relationship and it sometimes scares me. I dont want to sound like a bi*** but i dont think i want be in something so seriuos right now. every time i tell him that he just becomes all sad. breaking up with him has come across my mind several times. should I? what should i do???? Reply to this Question
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reader, chic0289 +, writes (31 May 2007):
chic0289 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey guys..thanks so much for the help...
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reader, nologo  +, writes (30 May 2007):
 Formerly honesty was supposed to be appreciated.
Now honest women get label "overly calculating".
"i don't want a boyfriend in college just because i don't want to be so committed and obligate to one person just yet"
You have the right to dump your boyfriend and you will do it.
Alternative called long distance relationship is not for you.
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reader, candy00s  +, writes (30 May 2007):
 Only break up with him if you are sure that this is what you want. Rather than end it completely why not try a trial seperation, have some space from each other and then decide if you want to go to college with a bf.
Your still young and you sound like you want to have fun rather than be commited to someone.
He is coming across as 'clingy' i think this is because he loves you and wants a serious relationship.
Dont stay with him though to keep him happy, do what makes you happy.
xxxx
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (30 May 2007):
Hi! Off to college
Why don't you two just sit down together and talk about how you feel. Only way that make any sense, as far as I see it.
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