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*rianna6037
writes:dear cupidi am 13 years old and there is a 29 year old that i am absolutely obsessed with. but he has no idea. he is married and has 2 kids, but i cant stop thinking of him and my "obsession" has begun to control my life. I need help before this gets out of hand and he find out. It would totally wreck our friendship.what should i do?
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reader, brianna6037 +, writes (11 March 2010):
brianna6037 is verified as being by the original poster of the questiondear penny
some background on this guy is that he is a family friend and my dad one day was joking around one day asking if i have a crush on him and right then he walked in the door and i looked at him and thought. 'man i do have a crush on him" and ever since then i have been major obsessed with him (also like you i am obsessed with some teachers) :P
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reader, Psychology101  +, writes (11 March 2010):
Well Penny is rght, this does happen, however action in this situation can he tricky. You are very young and most would agree that you shouldnt take any action here.
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reader, Jade87  +, writes (10 March 2010):
Hi first of all this has to stop you are only 13 years old and this guy as a family of his own.This is just a crush it will disolve and you will move on. You need to set your sights into something else. Do what young girls do like admire a boyband 'JLS' or something like that.Your hormones are going wild and your looking for companionship just go out with your friends there must be a boy in your class you like. You need a boy your own age. I wasnt even looking for guys at your age i was out with my mate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2010): Hi there,
It's hard to assess your obsession and help you, when we don't have much of a background to work on. How do you know this man? Is he a friend of the family or just a personal friend to you?
I can try and help you as much as possible, because I, in the past, have had such massive obsessions with older men, especially teachers, and it still happens today at the age of 17. If you can give me a bit of background that would help, or if you'd like to talk privately that'd be fine too. But all I will say is don't worry because this is totally natural.
Penny. x
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