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My husband does not want another baby. I need ideas to convince me why I shouldn't want one.

Q.   I just need here advice please. Im 40 years old, i have 3 children, the youngest is 12. Im wishing too deep in my heart to have another baby. But my Husband dont want to have a baby anymore. I insist. he said i should give him two years time to ...

A.   10 March 2010: truthfully i think it will be unfair if you have a child and your husband doesnt want one. I think it also unfair if you have a child at your age because when your child is 18 you will nearly be 60 years old. You wont look like that babies mum you ... (read in full...)

Obsessed with a married man

Q.   dear cupid i am 13 years old and there is a 29 year old that i am absolutely obsessed with. but he has no idea. he is married and has 2 kids, but i cant stop thinking of him and my "obsession" has begun to control my life. I need help before t...

A.   10 March 2010: Hi first of all this has to stop you are only 13 years old and this guy as a family of his own.This is just a crush it will disolve and you will move on. You need to set your sights into something else. Do what young girls do like admire a boyband ... (read in full...)

My friend watches lesbian porn and now I feel awkward around her.

Q.   Ok basically one of my oldest friends (who I'm not that close to anymore) lended me her laptop recently and she forgot to delete her history and I had forgotten the adress of the site I had already visited so went to find it there and a link flashed ...

A.   10 March 2010: Truthfully i think you two need to talk. even if she is bisexual this doesnt mean she likes you or that she wants to be with you. she is still your friend so speak to her about your feeling. She proberly needs someone to talk to about this.If it was ... (read in full...)

I have a big vagina. Is there anyway to get it smaller?

Q.   Okay, before I ask my question I'd like to let everybody know that I know not all females look like the women in porn, not all of us have a tiny vagina like the way they do but I am a little concerned about the size of mine. My pubic area is rather ...

A.   10 March 2010: Hi first of all i have a weight propblem and i will let you know that the weight on your virginia will shrink as you continue to lose weight. Because you are a big girl you will have a big virginia but it will go down as you lose weight. Dont worry ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend still doesn't have a job after 7 months....

Q.   Hello all, I have been going out with a guy for over 2 years now. We both went to the same college, in fact we met here. I have less than 1 one year left but he graduated this past August. It has been 7 months and he hasn't gotten a job yet. At ...

A.   10 March 2010: Hi in my opinion he needs to stop using his health as a escuse. Sure it hard to find work, i have been in same situation but just sleepin and siting playing games isnt gonna help. You need to be hard on him and tell him he needs to get work even if ... (read in full...)

He is threatening me because I won't have sex with him.

Q.   My friend hooked me up with her ex *joe and we have been going out for two weeks now. he is 15 and im 14. he already said he loves me and i fell for it.now all he ever wants to talk about is sex.i thought i wanted it but now im not so sure. he is ...

A.   10 March 2010: Hi firstly dont you rush into having sex you are young and there is plenty of time for that. Also dont have sex unless your confortable and you want to.This guy sounds like a nasty piece of work and if he makes you feel scared of him you need to ... (read in full...)

Do I tell his girlfriend he is flirting with me?

Q.   I have a guy friend who has been in a relationship with his girlfriend for over a year. He claims to love her, but quite often he acts in a really innappropiate way around me, and sometimes other girls, that suggests he doesn't. For example, last ...

A.   10 March 2010: In my personal opinion i think you should just not tell her. The one who always gets in trouble is the one who tells. I sugest you stay away from this guy as much as you can. But if you do have to be near him make sure you have people round you as ... (read in full...)

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