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writes: Dear Cupid,This problem began about 2 years ago. I had met a man from out of town and we got along great. We saw each other when we could until I could take it no more. I love him, but can't deal with the long distance thing. He also has 2 kids. I understand about the not taking things too fast and meeting his kids too soon. I broke it off with him after about a year. I met someone else, dated and things did not work out. The out of towner and I started up again until I met this other man. Here is where the problem comes in. The out of towner wants me now to meet his family and kids. He says if this is going to work, he feels like he should take that leap of faith. I have been with this other man now for about 6-7 months. Things are going well enough, he is sweet as can be, and very good to me, but now the sex is not happening because of me of course. I have no desire to be with this man that way. I think about the out of towner all the time. We email, talk on the phone, see each other when he is in town, and he really wants to make a go of this properly now. I don't want to hurt the man I am seeing now. How do I deal with this issue? The out of towner is very understanding, and so is the new guy. How do I choose?
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reader, becky05 +, writes (18 July 2005):
Youll have to decide who you want to be with and tell the other one that you dont want to see them again. Only you can decide who you want to be with...
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