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writes: I have been with my boyfriend a year and I don't think I could leave him although I feel like leaving him.I have never been totally happy with my boyfriend. There's something about the relationship and it doesn't feel right. I love him but probably more like a friend, but if it came to splitting up I wouldn't be able to take it because I have been with him quite a long time.Recently I met someone and I have cheated on my boyfriend with him. I have slept with this other lad and basically this lad is using me so I want to get out of it but how can I get out of this relationship???? Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2006): Spend a day deciding what you REALLY want, add up the pro’s and con’s, make a day of it.
Really sit there and think about it, maybe with a friend!? Either way you need to come to a conclusion.
If you do decide you want to leave him, think about the financial part of it,
“you got enough money for your own place? Are you strong enough? What are you going to do with your spare time?”
Think about these before you do, Plan it out so you aren’t left broke and homeless, or heartbroken and mistaken!
In the end I’m sure your smart enough to decide
If your not happy, then he's probably not happy with the relationship either.
Take Care
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reader, AstraeaKiana +, writes (28 September 2005):
It might seem harsh to say this, but if you're not happy in the relationship then you should just leave. Don't be afraid to get out of it; the longer you leave it, the harder and harder it'll get. Life's too short to hang around doing things you don't want to do. Break free, have fun and hopefully in time, you'll end up with somebody you do feel happy with. You'll only regret it if you don't.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (28 September 2005):
 We all feel like this when it comes to change. Nobody likes it, but that's what life is about. You know what they say 'a rolling stone gathers no moss'. You've been with him for so long that the thought of being apart hurts you, even though you don't want to be with him either. You've just got to be strong and break free, you'll be thankful you did it in the end. Don't waste your life being scared of making a big step which will probably change your life for the better in the end.
Nobody likes the thought of being on their own after having someone to depend on for so long but you have to be strong. You don't need him, or any guy for that matter, so get out and enjoy life, it's too short to waste. Good luck :)
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