Desperate to have sex, but terrified of STIs. Am I pathetic?
Q. Hi, I'm Jack from England. A statistic I read up on said that "1 in 9 people in England has had an STI". For that reason and the scary stuff about STI's being on the increase I'm scared to have sex, yes it means im still a virgin at 18 1/2 and it ...
A. 29 September 2005: It sounds to me as if the only reason you want to have sex is that you think everybody else is doing it. But I can assure you they're not. I'm 17 (and also from England btw)and I know hundreds of people in our age group who are still virgins. Yeah, ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get over my cheating husband?
Q. My spouse and I have been together since we were kids. I had just found out that he's been having an affair and he left me for her. I feel like I can't get over him. Why? What's wrong with me?...
A. 28 September 2005: It's only natural that you're finding it hard to get over your spouse- after all you'd been together for a long time. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you! Nobody could quickly get over a relationship that lasted that long, and it probably ... (read in full...)
Nothing's right with my boyfriend and I want to split, but we've been together so long!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend a year and I don't think I could leave him although I feel like leaving him. I have never been totally happy with my boyfriend. There's something about the relationship and it doesn't feel right. I love him but probably...
A. 28 September 2005: It might seem harsh to say this, but if you're not happy in the relationship then you should just leave. Don't be afraid to get out of it; the longer you leave it, the harder and harder it'll get. Life's too short to hang around doing things you ... (read in full...)
My friend doesn't want to risk our friendship, but he doesn't know how strongly I feel...
Q. I have liked one of my best friends for ages, and we flirt heavily. We are very close, but he doesn't want to go out with me cos he thinks it will ruin our friendship. The problem is I think I love him and am desperate for us to have a go at it....
A. 28 September 2005: Have you asked your friend how he actually feels about you? Talk to him about it and find out if he feels the same way. You say you're close and that you flirt, but have you asked him how he feels about you? Explain to him how strongly you feel and ... (read in full...)
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