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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I met a guy a few weeks ago and he has called me to meet up several times since then. I had dinner with him last night and he asked me to let him know if I wanted to meet him again this week. I got home, texted him asking about something (in a gentle way) but without mentioning whether I wanted to meet etc. Then suddenly I got this text message from him at 3am this morning which said: 'ah I wish it wasn't such an obscure hour. I would call you'.I was so much in a hurry this morning and somehow just interpreted it as an emergency text ('life must be tough for him living in a foreign country'), so asked him what happened and if he's alright. His reply was: 'yeah just wanted to rant. sorry'. I said 'I'm here to talk' and he replied that it was nothing big and he's now ok. I'm still getting to know him and trying to figure out if he's decent or not. I know in a lot of cases late night texting is just about booty calls and while I do not wish to relate this guy to such behaviours, I'm also not really sure what his 3am text message was about.
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reader, yowie  +, writes (14 September 2011):
 it seems like he needed someone to talk to, and thought of you. He texted and got no reply, and had the decency NOT to call at 3am. Then he fell asleep & the urgency passed. :)
He obviously thinks of you as someone he CAN talk to, and I dont think being thought of as a friend is a bad thing at all. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2011): Maybe he was wondering if you was too asleep for him to call?
It seems pretty much like a hint for him to call you so early in the morning because some people do like late night chats?
If he wanted to just 'rant' he obviously wanted you to say 'you can call' so he could speak to you,
I don't think it was such a bad thing atall...sweet in a way. It just depends what way you look at it.x
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reader, Ciar + ♥, writes (12 September 2011):
 He told you what it was about.
It is extremely rude to call or text someone at that hour unless it is an emergency and family would be the logical people to contact for that. The fact that he would do so, to rant of all things, suggests he doesn't respect your time or your boundaries.
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