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writes: I just had sex with my girl for the first time. It wasn't too good, just like I expected, but because no blood came out I'm not sure that she is not a virgin any more ? I know that some girls do not bleed when they have sex for the first time but is it possible that she is still a virgin ? and how do i know is she still a virgin or not ? thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2008): same here i got the same problem it really bothers me to because i lost it to her and she "lost it to me" she didnt bleed and that really got me thinkin but she swears she was a virgin but i cant really be 100% sure cuz u cant trust girls thats why i think the best thing to do is have sex with some other girl behind her back so you can feel like its even incase she was lying
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007): yea i have had the same problem bro and my gf is sketchy so idk she blames it on soccer or basket ball do i know that for sure no. :( It sucks
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2007): if your girlfriend was atletic, then she could have riped the slin (the cherry) that cause females to bleed thier first time. Runners, dancers and other types of sports can effect this.
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (23 July 2005):
 She is diffiantely not a virgin if you had penatrative sex. Jsut because she didnt bleed doesnt mean she wasnt a virgin beforehand either, we are all different and can lose the hymen in various other ways and some of us dont have any problem at all on our first time.. same goes for men.. some find it difficult others no so difficult. I would stop worrying about it now though as it seems you were too concerend that she was a virgin beforehand and you are doubting her.
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reader, Irish49  + ♥, writes (22 July 2005):
 If you had intercourse with her and penetrated her vagina with your penis..then we can safely say..she is NOT a virgin anymore. The blood you mention in your letter comes from the hymen, or "maidenhead," which is a thin, fleshy membrane in some girls and young women is found at the opening to the vagina. Just because she had NO blood does not mean she wasn't a virgin prior to you having sex with her.(more on that below) The hymen has a central perforation, which can be round or elongated, through which menstrual blood will flow. For a long time, it was believed that an intact hymen was evidence of a girl's virginity, as the hymen posed a barrier to sexual intercourse.
Some girls who are still virgins have no hymen at all
Girls who do have a hymen can "break (or pop) their cherry" in a number of differerent ways, sometimes without even knowing it. Some of the non-sexual ways in which a hymen will tear are: through an accident or injury, horseback riding, bicycling, high jumping, or gymnastics,
insertion of finger or instrument by doctor during
pelvic exam, tampon insertion, overzealous douching
Since an intact hymen can be stretched and split by an erect penis during sexual intercourse, a woman may feel momentary discomfort and/or bleed. On the other hand, there may be no blood or pain involved at all when the hymen is torn. It all depends on the female...each one is different. And it's likely she was a virgin when you had sex with her...due to her lack of experience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2005): A virgin is someone who hasn't had sex before! The fact that you had sex means that shes not a virgin anymore!
She possibly didn't bleed because her hymen was already broken - this is possible if you do a lot of horse riding or trampolining or gymnastics.
Dont worry - she is deffinately not a virgin anymore!
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reader, MyBeautifulRuin +, writes (22 July 2005):
most girls do bleed for the first time. it is unusual but it must be said that some girls dont bleed. the only way you'll be able to find out if she iwas or not is by asking. i know this isnt ideal, but it's the only way. just talk to her bout it, drop it into a conversation bout when you did it, and she her reaction. say that she didn't seem like a virgin or something and see what her reaction is. hopefully it'll show you the truth. good luck. xx
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