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writes:Me and my ex recently got back together. He was the one that asked for me back, and I gave in eventually despite not being ultimately and definitely sure.He was my first love and during our intense relationship, we were always so happy until of the course, the fights come into play. We started to destroy our relationship by often breaking up and getting back together.This was our longest break up and he even decided on trying to see someone else, but it didn't work out for him. During this time, I became stronger and much more independent and focused on my own priorities.But now that he's back, I don't know if I can still be the independent, hardworking party girl I am becoming as well as being the mature and serious girlfriend? I don't see the two working in conjunction with each other. I also don't know whether there is any more "spark" left in our relationship. But at the same time, there once was so much of it and so I'm holding on because I'm too afraid to let go and never be able to retrieve it again.PLEASE HELP ME :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): Is it possible that you have since met guys who bring you that spark but feel bad because it makes you think you're cheating on your bf? I think you moved on during the break period?
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reader, petina1  +, writes (15 January 2011):
 Sounds like your inbetween a rock and a hard place. Also you have hastily taken him back because you had moved on and are establishing a new life style. The question is, can he fit in to your new way of life or will he hold you back? I'm also getting the vibes that you're not bothered one way or the other if he is with you so if he is going to stay you would also, to be fair on him, work at that and work at getting back the spark you once had. At least there are no children involved whilst you are going through these thoughts and feelings.
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