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writes: I love my best friends older brother. He is like a brother to me, only I feel more for him. He's getting married in the next year or so, and I wondered if it would be bad to tell him? Im pretty sure it wouldn't affect him profoundly (meaning, it wouldnt mess with his head enough to make him think twice) but im not positive. The thing is, I dont think I can let him get married without getting it out. Im perfectly fine with leaving things as is, even after the wedding and him knowing. Meaning, I will not get all upset by whatever his reaction may be. Im sure that it will be a certain way, most likely "you know i love you like a sister, and im flatterd" etc. I know it seems stupid to tell him, but I feel as though I will regret it down the road if I were to keep it bottled. Sorry so long, but basically, should I tell him?
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reader, MissMo +, writes (24 March 2006):
Don't tell him. Just let him get happily married. You'd ruin all your relationships with those people (with him, and your best friend) if you told him. Just write it in your diary, talk to all your friends about it, and move on. Why would you regret keeping your feelings to yourself? You're saving yourself embarassment and awkwardness.
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reader, juliagulia  +, writes (24 March 2006):
 Hmmm... I don't really think this is a good idea. If you don't think it will change anything, then what is the point anyway? It may make him uncomfortable around you and your best friend may be upset with you for telling her brother how you feel just before his wedding. With everything else on his mind already, I think you should leave it alone.
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reader, dobby666 +, writes (24 March 2006):
 This is treading on extremely thin ice. If this guy is in love with his bride to be then he is off limits. Never get involved with another person's partner. Also if you are friends with his fiancee then think about how it will affect your friendship with her. I think you need to move on and find your own man.
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