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writes: I have been in love with this guy for about 9-10 years. When all this started i was young. We tried to go different ways. He hooked up with this girl and had kids and I got engaged. I left my relationship after three years because I still love him.This man is my brothers best friend so I see him all the time.We still love each other very much.He is very unhappy in his relationship,and his kids are still very young.He does not want to leave his kids the way his father left him.I understand that ,but Ive talked to him about joint custody. He's scared to lose his kid's.His kid's mother is always cheating,and she's never home for the kid's or him.I don't wanna be a home wreaker,but we love each other.What do I do .Im not waiting around ,but I can't love anyone the way I love him!!!! HELP!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): do not worry just tell him how you feel i am sure he'll understand.dont worry and be happy!!!!!
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reader, juliagulia  +, writes (24 March 2006):
 I agree - this isn't your place to be involved. He needs to make his own decision. You don't want to be the reason he chose to leave his kids or whatever. If you have told him how you feel, that is all you can do. If it is meant to be, it will work out in the end. In the meantime, don't sit around waiting for him to ditch his family for you, because sometimes people stay in unhappy marriages for a long, long time. Find someone who can be available for you. You may never love anyone the way you love him because everyone is different. It doesn't mean that you won't love someone else with all your heart. Leave yourself open to that possibility. Good luck!
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reader, eddie  + ♥, writes (24 March 2006):
 If he's so unhappy he'll leave her. There is no " but " here either. Mind your business !!! He's not yours. If she is so terrible, he'll leave. Why do you want to bring yourself down to her level?
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