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No one compares to my old boyfriend should I leave the new one?

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Question - (19 June 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 19 June 2006)
A female , *ikiniilove_xX writes:

okay well im 12 years old and live in california. theres this guy i've been going out with since november and i really like him a lot. hes pretty much gorgous. and hes always nice to me. hes one of the nicest guys i've ever dated. i recently broke up with him because its a long distance relationship and i barley ever get to see him. i dont know if he understood but it was really hard not seeing him.. he said he felt the same way. but this other guy from my school asked me out. i've been going out with him for a couple weeks but and hes so nice. not as hot as the other guy but definetly nice. i dont really feel as happy with him as i was with my other boyfriends. im really considering breaking up with him before the school years over. should i? message me.. im so confusedd.

-jamie

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A female reader, Smiler +, writes (19 June 2006):

Smiler agony auntHey sweetie

I see you have a few questions posted on this site today so rather than answer them individually i'm gonna try and answer them all in one ok... Firstly why are you worrying about him masterbating, whether he is or he isn't shouldn't be clogging up your mind at such a tender age honey your young my advice is enjoy being young live your life to the full life is much to short to be stressing about such minor things as life goes on you will have more than enough to trouble you so for now i'd just enjoy the carefree life you have you only get one shot at it don't waste it.. now the next post you had was am i to young to make out? well in my opinion there is nothing wrong with some light petting and closely kissing and cuddling with your guy, if your happy with each other and want to display some affection to each other but don't do anything your not comfortable with.... again enjoy your innocence 12 is such a tender age and you have not yet reached the age 2 be going any futher than light petting u know.. forget worrying whether he's masterbating enjoy ur innocence sweetie it won't last forever... have fun be loving and affectionate sure but don't be pressured into doing anything ur not emotionally ready for ok :o) now for this post well honestly babe you shouldn't be comparing your urrent b/f to ur ex either cause thats not fair on him expecting him to live up to expectations he can't possibly meet cause no-one will ever be as good asyour ex! from what you have said... but i honestly feel if your not happy with the guy your with you should end it and don't try to make it something it clearly isn't :o)

I hope my advice was able to help you out with your situations babe and good luck with this... if you ever need a friend or a chat or just more advice don't hesitate to email me sweetie, I would love to hear from you again and know how you got on... Remember i'm always here for you anytime ok

You Take Care Sweetie X

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A female reader, answerallthetym +, writes (19 June 2006):

Maybe you dont feel much for this new boyfriend because your so hooked on your old boyfriend who lives so far away. Maybe if you tried really hard to forget about your old boyfriend you will see your new boyfriend in a diffrent light. You never know you two could be good together if you given it a go!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2006):

hi there :)

Its probably best to listen to your heart. If your not happy with the guy your with now you probably should break up with before it goes any further so he dosn't get hurt eather. Maybe you just need a little more time to get over your previous relationship?

Best of luck though

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2006):

If you're not happy with him, then leave him. Also, how could you possibly be confused? I find that a lot of people over-use that word.

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